Dear Bloggie,

Hong Kong..


Bali..

Gold Coast..

Reason why i listed out some of this places is because..I need a break! I need to go somewhere. For a holiday i mean! But where? Thats the difficult part. Thought of going hong kong but not too sure about that and best of all is,no one to accompany me. Mum is busy working and sister is too young to travel with me. Dad? i don't think so. Maybe travel alone is not a bad idea but i should go on a tour then. That will be more safer. Oh i just can't make up my mind. When to go is another question! Or maybe i should go somewhere nearby.

Genting highland?

Hmm..maybe..

Dear Bloggie,

If you noticed, there is more and more articles about women getting pregnant before married or even getting an abortion. I felt angry and sad. Angry cause they are so stupid to get themselves involved in this kind of situation. Sad cause the poor baby is killed by the method called abortion.

What is an abortion?

Abortion is ending a pregnancy early before the foetus can survive outside the womb. If it occur spontaneously or naturally, it’s commonly referred to as a “miscarriage”. This is usually because the foetus has passed away in the womb. Under these circumstances, the pregnancy may be expelled from the womb naturally or may require surgery.
Abortion can also be induced. The foetus together with the placenta is expelled from the womb before it is developed enough to survive and will result in its death.Abortion means the voluntary termination of pregnancy.

How is abortion performed?

You will have to see a gynaecologist who will examine you and send you for ultrasound scan to find out how far advanced your pregnancy and if the foetus is in the correct location in the womb. If it is outside the womb,it is potentially life threatening.

Risks:

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  Bleeding which may require hospitalisation and blood transfusion


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  Damage to cervix which may result in early delivery or pregnancy loss in subsequent pregnancies. To reduce this, medication is inserted in the vagina before the procedure
  
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  Perforation (making a hole) in the womb which may require further surgery


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  Infection which can cause fever and pain and hospitalisation. This may impair future fertility


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  Rarely, scarring of the lining of the womb such that you may not have menses any more. It can also cause difficulty getting pregnant in the future.

Do they think before doing this kind of things? At the first place where is your safety then?No point regret after that. Cause you have already commited a sin. To me the one suffering is the woman and not man. Look at the risks itself doesn't it scares all of you. Doing it is easy but after that its not gonna be easy anymore.

Look at the poor baby..

Dear Bloggie,

Have not been blogging for quite sometime busy as usual. Anyway was down with fever last 2 days. 38.4 that was my temperature. Quite high right? Feeling better now and i'm back to work only today. Work is piling and piling non stop. Tried to finish one,another one comes in. How i wish i could just stay at home shaking my leg and money will just come. Well that's fantasy and the reality is this! Life as a human is this way. Sometimes i just can't stand with people at work. Pushing around things to other colleagues. Telling that they are not capable in doing some of the things that are given to them. Craps! Can't stand this kind of people and i wonder why do they still keep this people around. Can't do this can't do that,so tell me what can you do then?

Enough talking and stressing,if not i will fall more sick. Tomorrow i'm on leave. Why? Cause most of the clinics are blocked as they are having MBBS Exams.Yippee another rest day for me. So happy about it. Anyway dedicate this song to all of you. Love the rhythm and lyrics cause it actual reflect me :D

Masih Ada - Ello

Dear Bloggie,

Finally my computer is working well again. Thanks to my dad friend who helped to repair this computer of mine. Have not been updating my blog or even checking my mails due to that. 

Anyway I'm on leave today,only for a day due to my dad medical appointment. Well every few months he will have to visit the doctor to check his sugar level cause he suffered from diabetes. Although doctor said results was quite ok,but he still thinks that my dad has to cut down on sugary food and also try to exercise and maintain his weight. Glad to hear that from the doctor :)

Lately i've been involving myself in a project called Management of AVF Patients. A project or KAIZEN to improve on our workflow. We were given 5 days to finish the project and then will have to present it to our CEO and COO. Imagined in such a short timing. I'm glad everything turned out well although on the day of the presentation itself we have some hiccups like we can't opened the file or so on.

Dear Bloggie,

Finally mission accomplished. Been wanting to try out this few recipes and WALLA..i did it :D

Its quite easy thought. Maybe you guys should try it.

Dear Bloggie,

"He's just not that into you" movie was really awesome.

Catch it with sujinah at the cathay at causeway point.

Alot of points taken from this movie for singles like me.

Its a romantic cum funny movie.

Recommend all to watch especially singles :D

Oh remember the sign which i was talking abt in my previous blog?I actually saw the same one too at causeway point cathay and wrote a feedback about it cause i think they could actually improved on what they are trying to tell their customers or maybe just removed the sign from all counters cause it's so confusing.

On leave for 2 days..

Dear Bloggie,

Are man is this world born to be EGO?Well,reason why I'm asking is because of my dad. Dad has been coughing for almost months.We thought somehow or rather its normal but when one of my family members got it then i realized that its actually not normal. Doctor advised was to get my dad to go for a check up but when we asked him to go,he will always declined. This is not the first time. I did told him the consequences that he will get just to scare him but he still stick to his decision and give us alot of excuses. You see,we want him well. Which child want to see their parents ill? I thought since i'm on leave tomorrow i could bring him to see the polyclinic doctor.

I always argue with my dad because of this. Really pissed me off. Oh god how do i convinced him to go to the doctor with me tomorrow?

We care and that matters.

What type or kind of lady would you want or find to be your life partner?

Dear Bloggie,

How was all your dates yesterday? I bet it turned out well right? As for me,my date was with the television watching DVDS hehe.

Well since yesterday was Valentine's Day, I would like to ask a question to guys out there. 

What type or kind of lady would you want or find to be your life partner?

I watched this movie called Seducing Mr Perfect yesterday at home. It actually taught me alot. Alot about relationship and guys. Most importantly not to be too nice too guys. So thats why i wanted to asked this question to guys out there. So if you are a guy out there and you are reading,maybe you can answer to the question that i asked.

Natasha Bedingfield:Happy

Natasha Bedingfield - Happy.mp3 - Natasha Bedingfield

Oh oh oh yeah, oh!
Oh oh oh, ooh ooh
Oh oh oh, ooh ooh ooh

Landlord's knocking at my door 
Cussing me out

Got laid off my job the night before 
Can't figure how
I'm gonna fix tomorrow when 
Yesterday's still a mess

Can you tell me what's the point, man?
It all seems meaningless

Wish that I could step away and breathe
This world's trying to swallow me

Clear away the clouds inside my head

Someone just tell me that it's okay now
What are you whining about?

Got my dreams, got my life, got my love
Got my friends, got the sunshine above

Why am I making this hard on myself

When there's so many beautiful reasons I have to be happy?
Oh oh, oh oh oh 

People lie, people hide
People cry, people fight
And they don't know why
If fear is all that we should fear

Then what are we so afraid of?
'Cause fear is only in our heads

Someone please say that it's okay now

What are you whining about?

Got my dreams, got my life, got my love

Got my friends, got the sunshine above
Why am I making this hard on myself
When there's so many beautiful reasons I have to be happy?

Oh oh, oh

Any day I'll come back thinking that if one is against me
And the world wants to fight me
Preparing to battle an enemy unseen
During my stressing I'm blinded to the lessons

That could be a blessing if I'd be confessing
They're the enemy

I'm trying to be as hard as in me, oh 

But it's okay now
What are you worrying about?

Got my dreams, got my life, got my love

Got my friends, got the sunshine above
Why am I making this hard on myself
When there's so many beautiful reasons I have to be happy?

Keep your pride, don't go
So many reasons to be happy
It's your life, it's your world
That it's okay now

Keep your pride, don't go
It's your life, it's your world

Got my dreams, got my life, got my love
Got my friends, got the sunshine above

Why am I making this hard on myself

When there's so many beautiful reasons I have to be happy?

Its true..there's so many beautiful reasons for me to be happy..